Our expert says:
Its easy for a therapist, even without realizing it, to tend to take the side of the person they are mainly seeing, simply through knowing him better. But she ought to be even-handed and check out how your view of things matches his. YOu should have told her exactly what you have told us here, and emphasize that while you do think of what your husband wants to do, you also expect him to think of your concerns, and especially what best suits the children, as well. For him to expect you to always go along with his suggestions is just another way of being bosy. Its not your fault, by assuming almost everything to be your fault has probably become rather a habit with you. And habits take a while to break. There are problems in the Middle East and with North Korean and Iran, and none of them are your fault, either
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