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Posted by: Guilty or not | 2009-02-17

Relationships

Dear cybershrink, thanks for the answer on my previous question. I get it - but the question now is - so if he does something that makes me unhappy or hurts me - I must just keep quiet? For example, if I say something to him like that really hurt me, why did you do that - he blasts off well how many times have your hurt me.........so it seems like he can now do anything and i cannot say anything about it as it brings up my past.

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Its not about simply accepting hurtful behaviour by anyone else, but of how one chooses to respond and to express one's hurt. Marriage / relationship counselling is obviously really needed, though persuading him to take part properly will be the toughest part

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Posted by: Guilty or not | 2009-02-17

Nope it wont be hard - he actually suggested it a while back - and you know what I am the one that does not want to go - I do not want to bring all this up again - it hurts - and I am tired of being reminded that I am a crappy person

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