Our expert says:
I agree with part of what you may be saying, that we may at times expose kids to damaging witnessing of abuse, for fear that divorce or separation itself would be more damaging ( and it isn't ). If the kids seem clearly troubled, seeing a counsellor may help. But if not, well, kids can be remarkably resilient --- and you can get into the practise of chatting with them about such issues, related to movies and shows they've seen on TV, music they like ( try listening to what they pick ) and their and your experince of abuse.
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