Our expert says:
Men tend to show and reveal their emotions less easily and clearly than women, on the whole. In addition, some people have a condition called Alexithymia, in which they have a specific difficulty in putting their concerns and feelings into words. And the more you push them to do so, the more tongue tied they may become.
And when you "tell him your feelings" he may be just at a loss to know what to do about them.
Why not see a couples counsellor together for some sessions before marriage, to sort out lines of comunication and reduce the stress you both seem to be experiencing.
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