Our expert says:
When we find that we keep making the same mistake, this is where CBT style counselling / psychotherapy can help ; to understand why this is, what fails, and how to usefully do things differently. I have never ever come across a relationship enhanced by SMS. What you're describing sounds needy and demanding enough to frighten off most men, especially those you might acually want to be with. And in the meantime as you have identified what you're doing wrong, why can't you just stop doing it ? Sending the SMS isn't compulsoty.
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