Our expert says:
Its like someone who stops paying the installments once the car has been delivered.
The present arangement presumably suits him perfectly, even though it doesn't suit you at all. COuples counselling could help, but something needs to break the level of complacency and certainty that seems to have demotivated him.
Too many people fail, when getting married, to talk through and clarify their expectations. But as Liza says, even fewer people clarify their mutual expectations when moving in together. Now he ha all the adantages of a marriages without any of the inconveniences. And you try so hard this makes it clear to him that he doesn't need to try any more.
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