Our expert says:
Iwonder whether his choice of date was a coincidence, or done with malicious intent ? Judging by the reaction of your gf, it may have been intended. Suicide usually occurs in very sad people, profoundly depressed and out of contact with others. But sometimes it is a deliberately malicious, hostile and manipulative act.
He presumably intnded to make her feel guilty and bad, and has succeeded. Give her time to mourn and work through her grief, preferably with the aid of a counsellor experienced in such matters. Your support and understanding will greatly help her to get through this ugly experience. As Kelly says, check with her as to what she needs, indicating your sympathy, concern, and willingness to help as she wishes.
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