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Posted by: Karen | 2011/01/24

relationship complication

ek het n nuwe vriend. ons albei was al voorheen getroud. hy is baie self gesentreerd en sy vriende kom altyd eerste. die nawek het ek saam met hom gaan braai by sy vriende. hulle praat egter heeltyd oor goed wat hulle al saam gedoen het in die verlede en ook van sy x vrou. dit het my afgesit en toe ek dit met hom opneem toe sy hy net waaroor moet ons anders gesels en dat ek verkeerd is. sy vriende is altyd eerste. moet ek die man maar net los of wat maar ek is lief vir hom maar ek offer als op om hom te please.

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OK, let's see. He is self-centred and gives priority to his friends rather than his woman - and, having been married before, at least one good woman has tried hard to change him for the better, and has failed. Maybe you're prepared to offer anything to please him, but apparently he's not interested in offering much to please you. This, apparently is how he is. If you find this unsatisfactory ( and surely many women would ) then don't expect anything different from him

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Posted by: KLM | 2011/01/24

Hardloop! been there, done that - hulle verander nie. 5 Jaar na die tyd en sy vriende kom nogsteeds voor my.

Ek weet jy is lief vir hom, en net as jy hom gaan aanvaar soos hy tans is, sal jy gelukkig wees.

Ek is besig om planne te maak om te hardloop, oor juis dieselfde probleem... jy kan ook!

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/01/24

OK, let's see. He is self-centred and gives priority to his friends rather than his woman - and, having been married before, at least one good woman has tried hard to change him for the better, and has failed. Maybe you're prepared to offer anything to please him, but apparently he's not interested in offering much to please you. This, apparently is how he is. If you find this unsatisfactory ( and surely many women would ) then don't expect anything different from him

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