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Posted by: Mouse | 2010/07/02

Relationship Advice

Hi, my ex of 6 years and i are just mates with benefits. That was the original agreement when we crossed paths earlier this year.
but how do i tell him that I want to gives us another go. the breakup was a bad one (mother was 3rd party interefence). We keep crossing paths since we have broken up. 1st we fell pregnant and i lost the baby and now that the 3rd party had passed we are back again in each others lives.
his motto is that he never goes back to exes, but then why always come back to me?
Do i tell him I would like to try again or do I walk away?

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Expert ImageCyberShrink

There's no special, secret formula for his. Just calmly and pleasantly tell him that while the current arrangement is pleasant, you're feeling more interested in possibly returning to another try at the relationship as it nearly was - and how does he feel about that as a possibility. If you never mention it to him, you;ll probably never know what he might have said.

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Posted by: mouse | 2010/07/08

Well I chickend out. I sent him an email instead. and have not heard back from him. Which I was expecting not to but still it HURTS that he couldnt even be bothered to let me know what he has decided

Thanks for your advice

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2010/07/03

There's no special, secret formula for his. Just calmly and pleasantly tell him that while the current arrangement is pleasant, you're feeling more interested in possibly returning to another try at the relationship as it nearly was - and how does he feel about that as a possibility. If you never mention it to him, you;ll probably never know what he might have said.

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Posted by: Cat | 2010/07/02

tell him love - you owe yourself that truth! rather know what to expect!

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