Our expert says:
You're right to reject the idea of having an affair with anyone else ; and entirely justifiable in not wanting to have sex with someone who is habitually drunk. He is not likely to manage to stop his problem drinking on his own however ( and would have done so already, if he could ). He needs expert advice from a shrink with experience in the field of problem drinking, and probably also from AA. Encourage him to do this, emphasizing that it would be so much better for him, you, the kids, and the relationship
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