advertisement
Question
Posted by: Me | 2010/12/19

rejected!

My boyfriend and i have been together for 2.5 years and living together for 2. I really want to get married - he says he is not ready (he is 28). HOWEVER, he often says things like " one day when we get married ..." 

I feel rejected... what can I do? There is NO way that I am going to give him an ultimatum because I dont believe in them, but I dont know how to deal with this.

Can you give me some advice?

Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question
Our expert says:
Expert ImageCyberShrink

Right, an ultimatum is raerely useful, But why not just talk about it with him, explaining how you feel uncomfortable when he says that, and want to understand more clearly where the relationship is going.

The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.

2
Our users say:
Posted by: cybershrink | 2010/12/20

Right, an ultimatum is raerely useful, But why not just talk about it with him, explaining how you feel uncomfortable when he says that, and want to understand more clearly where the relationship is going.

Reply to cybershrink
Posted by: crack | 2010/12/19

That doesnt sound like rejection, sounds like he isnt ready.

Reply to crack

Have your say

Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly.
Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly.
advertisement