Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
You wanting to try and make your marriage your marriage is perfectly understandable. You have feelings for your husband and you have a daughter together. These may seem enough to put in some effort. It has been reported also that it is not an affair per se which will be the cause of a breakup, but the damaged trust and poor communication.
Some people may advise you to leave this relationship while others may encourage you to bite the bullet. There is no right or wrong really. Only what is right for you! In order to know what is right for you, you need to connect with your innerself and pretty follow your "gut feeling". When something feels right it most probably is. When something doesn't, it most probably isn't.
You mention feeling sad and depressed since moving back into your home. Ask yourself what message you can identify in your feelings. No one else but yourself know is best for you. List the pros and cons. What is important to you and what is not and connect with your values and how aligned you are to those values, then allow yourself to feel what is the right decision.
No one is forced to live an un-fulfilling life or a life which doesn't contribute to our well being. We all have choices. Your husband made a choice which compromised the quality of your relationship. Our choices are mostly based on values which are important to us. Are your values and your husband's values compatible?
You find it hard to trust your husband again.
I say: Trust yourself and your choice.
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