Our expert says:
Men only get away with things if we allow them to do so. Sounds as though the pair of you REALLY needed to see a couples counsellor much earlier than this. Sounds like h's given up on this or maybe any relationship, as his standard answer when you point out a problem is that you should get another man while he just gives up.
You seem to have been unsupportive of each other, and merely lonely together.
Maybe he didn't want to break up with you, but by ignoring you, hoped you'd leave, and leave him to his other woman ?
If you both actually want to make this relationship work, then do see a counsellor. IF neither of you want to do so, or one really wont work to help ensure it happens, maybe it's over already, ad it might be better to decalre it over, and each move on. BUT if you do separate, make sure you go to the Maintenance Court and ensure that he is required to pay maintenance for the child - people should not be encouraged to create children and then abandon them
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