Our expert says:
I is really valuable to distinuish between thoughts and actions. I am surethat at times, in different circumstances, you have "thoughts" about things you would not do and which you would feel bad about and would not want to be broadcast to the community at large. Books a therapist has publihed only count if they were published by a major world publisher, not, as is sometimes the case in SA, if they are essentially self-published. Similarly, articles are important when in major world journals rather than in Heat !
I wonder, reading your messages, whether you don't also have some anger isues, anger about his fantasies past or present, and other issues. Leaving aside your concern that he has any "gender issues" at all --- don't you love the man himself ?
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