Our expert says:
Sad, isn't it, that when one fears the marriage may be over, we tend to think of doing things that will guarantee that it's over !
A marriage counsellor ( if you could persuade him to take part, maybe if he thinks it's to help him with whatever problems he thinks he has with you ! )will make it clear there are no excuses for his cheating and worrying you about his fidelity.
But now you reveal you have seen 2 therapists and a marriage counsellor, all of whom told you to leave him. You now reveal further details that make it clear he has no respect for you ( or himself ) at all. You cannot possibly save the marriage all on your own. Unless he sincerely wants to save it, you may as well leave him
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