Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: Fed Up | 2013/01/10 Re: Post 40 (Advice) I have all the paperwork for the divorce, started completing it already. Planning to tell my husband over the weekend. I know that he is going to freak out and be very angry because he thinks all is fine. He is going to be all rude towards the kids and me and if there are things he should help with eg. the kids he will just ignore me and not do it, by acting this way the vibe in the house will not be pleasant, especially for the kids. i dont want to argue and swear in front of them, he has no problem doing this, Can i force him to move out, previously he did not want to cause he was said where must i go i am not working, now he is working he can find a place. Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 3 Our users say: Posted by: Anon | 2013/01/15 Hi,Please remember that no one takes too kindly to receiving a divorce summons, or hearing from their spouse that they want a divorce. It''s an emotional roller coaster and only you can possibly predict how he will react. If he''s been violent before then that''s probably what you can expect.If you are married COP, then you cannot force him to move out, unless he is violent and the mechanism to do that is a protection order. You have to be able to prove that he has been violent. From what you describe, that''s unlikely.If you want to move on with your life, then you need to make the move. You cannot expect to simply kick him out and benefit. That won''t fly in court.You can get a Rule 43, or interim order, but then again, you need to move out. It won''t be granted if you ask the court to ask him to leave. They have no power under Rule 43 to kick him out of his house.My advice to you is to go for counseling first. No one is asking you to accept his infidelity, or to forgive him. Just let each other know how you are feeling now and work from there. You may find that he is also wanting to part ways, and that will make it all easier on everyone. Reply to Anon Posted by: You | 2013/01/15 Stooopid woman!!First of all, how are you married, ICOP?? Reply to You Posted by: Creamy Sparkle | 2013/01/10 Hi,dear pls be alert for the violent behaviour(he can kill u) okay,its just we dont want to loose you,go ahead with ur decision but pls be safe.. Reply to Creamy Sparkle Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions Septum reset CRAVING VIR YS Will womb scrape help me? Child's fingernails peeling Side effects Quick ejaculation Erectile dysfunction Enlarged prostate Sexual Problem Expired ED pills Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? My son and I If a girl swallows sperm, can she get pregnant? He called me filth Hormone advertisement From our sponsors Discover treatments that can help reduce acne What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks? Dementia and Incontinence: what you need to know WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal online store voucher!