Our expert says:
I wasn't commenting on the precise specifics --- I mentioned that you can't get far complaining about a statment that is true, unless it can be shown to be highly damaging and done purely out of malice., and even then it'd be very difficult. And if the modelling isn't something you need to feel shamed of, and something which other people know about ( and it's hardly a secretive way of life !)
She isnt doing this because she enjoys it itself, but because she has some reasons to believe that it is hurting or upsetting you --- whether from any direct responses from you, or from what she hears from anyone else you mau complain to, or just from what other people might say about your responses. ANYTHING she can find out to suggest to her that you are bothered by what she is doing, will encourage her to continue doing it. So I;m not talking about revenge or retailiation. Just pointing out what usually motivates people who are behaving maliciously.
The words of other people are unlikely to be something to convince her to stop ; and the mere evidence that more pople ar einvolved and concerned might actually encourage her
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