Our expert says:
I understand that you want a child. And its understandable that he, already supporting 2 children, may not want another child. I would pay attention to the wishes of your child, but one doesn't have another child because your firstborn wants a sibling --- actually, with the age difference likely, she might not be as happy about it if it happened, as she thinks. Does your life feel empty in other ways, too, and is this mainly the central example of your wanting something else in your life to keep occupied and feeling valuable ?
When one spouse wants another child and the other doesn't, that's unfortunate and needs to be dealt with within dicsussion or counselling --- one can't, to be fair, conclude that the one not wanting a further child is necessarily wrong, or selfish, or "robbing" you ---its as reasonable for him not to want one as it is for you to want it.
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