Our expert says:
YOu need to see and sincerely work with, a good local shrink. Cutting, though to you is may seem very expressive of your feelings and your despair, is a dreadful way to try to communicate with anyone else, as it frightens them and makes them less willing to pay attention to your distress, not more. <br>YOu can't reasonably be expected to care for a nutty gran without help, and her own wealth should be made available to pay for her care and caregivers --- talk things over with her doctors ( if they are expecting her to be discharged and to live with you, they MUST check out whether you can cope --- and they must consider whether she is mentally capable of dealing with her own financial affairs, or whether they should legally have someone appointed as her guardian to legally manage her finances including paying for what she needs. She sounds unstable, paranoid, and unable to properly understand and respond to her actual situation. And if she is sill paranoid and unstable, she needs better medication, too. <br>Your parents need to be told firmly that your home is yours and if they can't behave properly and respectfully, they must find somewhere else to stay. If she threatens to make your life " a living hell" she does not, herself, belong in your home. Sounds like your mother has a wildly unrealistic view of what "standards" of accomodation your gran needs. The other hotels you mention provide nice and clean accomodation, though I don't know whether any hotel can handle a paranoid and noisy old woman. <br><br><br>
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