Our expert says:
I think CBT ( Cogn itive-Behaviour Therapy ) - see SADAG to check a shrink who provides it - would be far more useful for such a sadness based on real life factors and your reaction to them, than long-term antidepressant use.
Nobody is "the best man in the world", though some are indeed very nice people - but excessive assumptions about how glorious someone is, sets ou up for greater disappointment when they prove to be merely human.
I hope I understand you that you have STOPPED self-mutilating and cutting, and the problem now centres around the scars. Tell him, calmly and undramatically, and discuss when and how you stopped. If he cares about you, he will come to acept this, though as you understand this could be alarming for most folks to adjust to.
COnsider the scars like old diaries - records of poast distres, which don't need to become current cases of distress unless you allow them to become that
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