Our expert says:
I suppose part of the issue is that a marriage includes intimate bonds, not all of which are automatically ended after a divorce or break-up - and which don't necessarily have to limit what the person can give to his new partner. And it seems quite common for Ex's, especially those who don't yet have a new close partner, to rely on their ex for help in favours and problems.
Apparently this woman has now announced herself as gay ? That may be so, and if so, may help to explain the end of that relationship and may suggest that she is not seeking a new or renewed sexual or close emotional relationship with your husband. What do other readers think ?
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