Our expert says:
Do I understand from you, then, that the other woman chose to tell you she was sleeping with him ( which sounds unpelasantly like bragging ) but you didn't discuss this with him or tell him to stop it, before he revealed the pregnancy ? The other woman, of course, has a cheek to insist that her child needs a structured family ( having damaged yours ) - if she actually wanted that, she wouldn't have had an affair, neglecting contraception, with an already married man. You are under no obligation to acept the child into your life or that of your children, though this new child ism utterly innocent ; your jusband is obliged to provide adequate financial support for the child, and such emotional suppoert as benefits the child. I do hope you are, together, seeing a marriage counsellor to guide you both through these difficult times.
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