Our expert says:
It's normal, though uncomfortable, to be upset by upsetting circumstances, and anxious about threatening problems. Feling guilty about not having stayed with your ex doesn't help though ; presumably you had what seemed like good reasons to leave him when you did. Feeling guilty about a decision made in the past and in good faith is simply not useful. And surely you have arranged or will arrange for him to pay maintenence for his child ( see the Mainenance Court ). See your shrink or doc, and have your medication for your bipolar re-considered, at a state clinic if needs be.
Leeloo also makes sense. Stop paying emotional rent for the past, and learn to become more calm in the present.
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