Our expert says:
One of thne basi principles of CBT ( Cognitive-behaviour Therapy ).
Susan PLEASE do not post a long question as a comment on another post - I may very well not see it at all.
Briefly, it sounds as though your friend really needs to see a good local psychologist for an assessment and a period of counselling / therapy, to identify and resolve all these issues arising from his past experiences. It sounds as though this would be urgently important to arrange
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