Our expert says:
He sounds rather confused as to what and who he wants, and a relationship that blows hot and cold so often is unlikely to be happy or long-lasting. If you need to TRY to feel anything for him, then there is no basis for a good relationship, and his apparent fondness for you hardly has any sensible basis, does it ? Its not clear whether you're helping him by responding and meeting with him every time he changes his mid again and thinks he likes you again. There's an element of stalking, of irrational behaviour, on his side, which would make me uneasy and reluctant to meet with him, rather than just calmly and pelasantly saying that you wish him well, you're sure he'll be really happy, eventually, with someone else, but from your side it just won't work out, and you're not going to see him again.
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