Our expert says:
What you're describing isn't caused by or typical of, gay men, but peraps a personality dsorder or just unwise behaviour in somone who happens to be gay. Yes, the lifestyle you describe is unhelpful for his longterm happiness, and he might be helped by counselling by a gay-friendly ( undertanding ) counsellor, which some local gay orgamizations might be able to help him find.
And try to have calm chats with him, abou how he sees his future, what he'd like in the oong erm, and how he feels about the unfortunate way his mother treated him
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