Our expert says:
I must confess to cringing when I hear a grown woman refer to herself as "wifey" and similar infantilising terms. Why on earth shouldn't your husband have decided to be kind and generous towards a woman who helps in your home ? And why on earth should he have pretended it was you who was being kind ? Why on earth should he have bought anything for you and the kids at the same time ? What on earth makes you think you deserved any gift ?
You sound greedy, mercenary, and selfish, and I hope you are not teaching your kids these ugly expectations from the world.
If, as you suggest, he previously had a serious involvement with a house-servant, that suggests a basiuc problem in your relartionship, and you should seek marriage counselling together. If he were buying her cloth to keep her silent about any affair with her, why on earth would he have mentioned it to you ?
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