Our expert says:
If I understand you correctly, you are wondering if you made a mistake by telling your girlfriend that you have deep feelings for both her and your high school girlfriend..? This is difficult - your girlfriend, like many other people, appears to struggle to share your love. I wonder why she reacted so strongly...is it that you are still involved in your high school girlfriend's life ? (eg still see her, meet with her, etc?) Or is it that your recent girlfriend has been betrayed by someone in the past and is very sensitive to this? Ultimately, her saying that she couldn't handle this information is her protecting herself - whether it's warranted or not. If it's her issue, she needs to get support to sort out her insecurities. If, however, you have been continuing to be involved with your high school girlfriend's life (or perhaps with other women), then perhaps you need to consider the impact of this on your partner... It's unfortunate that I can't give a nice clear response - it's complex.
Claire - SASHA
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