Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: | 2013/11/29 putting passion back into a marriage Hi We have been married for 30 years and we need to regain the passion in our marriage - been through lots of emotional trauma these last few years. Is there a good book etc that you can recommend that would be able to help us. Many thanks Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 2 Our users say: Posted by: Anonymous | 2013/12/03 Stop dwelling in the past , just opens the whole can worms again . Make your decision that who you with is your lifetime partner and love . Whatever has happened forgive each other and pray for the best . Learn new ways to trust each other . Renew your marriage vows and commit to each other afreh , forgive and forget the past . Live for now and the future . Say nice things to each other and do things for each other , go out , naughty texts , visit an adult shop , check the net for new sex techniques , see a doctor for any underlying chronic conditions , exercise and start your foreplay early in the morning and keep it going throughouth the day . Its good to argue but dont bring out the past . Its a lame mechanism to try and win the argument . Remember youve forgiven so forget too . Promise each other never to go to sleep angry . Forgive each other for bad words at bedtime and no matter how many times it happens keep on promising each other that you will try and be nicer . Always hold each other and go to sleep . Reply to Anonymous Posted by: Kristina | 2013/11/29 Fighting for Your Marriage by Howard J. Markman, Scott M. Stanley, and Susan L. Blumberg The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs I recommend these 3 books. :-) What i also recommend you to do together is try to talk everything through, express your feelings, try to relax, have a fun day out together and try to avoid any arguments. Reply to Kristina Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions My son is on 56mg concerta but only started last year LOWER BACK PAIN HUSBAND HAS SWOLLEN LYMTH NODE CLOSE TO HIS GROIN Womans chronic tension orgasm How many sleeping pills is too many? Womans chronic tension orgasm Could I be pregnant 11 weeks pregnant Cycts can ultrasound detect abortion if you are on abortion bleeding Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? Hormone Working for 4 years on Contract Not sure if my boyfriend is in our relationship My son is on a hunger strike because he got braces advertisement From our sponsors Managing diabetes in the workplace Back-to-school with diabetes Discover treatments that can help reduce acne What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks?