Our expert says:
There's Support and then there's Indulgence. NObody needs a Gap Year - it;'s a fashion, and if she wants one, she should have taken a part-time job and saved up for it. And unless there is an overhwelming medical reason, seeing a psychologist once a week, at someone else's expense, is also a selfish indulgence and not a necessity. She urgently needs to be pushed to get a job and pay for her own indulgences, and to learn what things actually cost in the real world., and to stop spending other people's money so lavishly.
The "trauma o divorce" is nonsense and very very rarely leads to problems needing so much attention - sounds far more like an excuse, designed to make Daddy feel guilty.
Why can't she stay with her Mom, and see how she feels about all this self-indulgence ?
The line should have been drawn long, long ago, but i's never too late. She is being spoiled, and this is bad for her as well as for you and the coming child.
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