Our expert says:
Its not uncommon that you adopt a strategy supposed to minimise strife, which actually increases it. But then you would change the strategy. If lying to her causes problems consistently, and you are usually discovered when you do so, why not adopt an all truth policy rather than a selective but unsuccessful one ?
Suicide isn't remotely an answer to anything. Suggest she join you in marriage counselling to sort this out, and if at first she is reluctant, start seeing a counsellor on your own, and invite her to join you when she wishes to do so.
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