Our expert says:
OK, from the sound of it, you probably didn;t see any good role models of mature and satisfying adult relationships while you were growing up. But you can learn, with the help of a counsellor, to find your own way to have enduring and satisfying relationships. Maybe look into why it may be that you enjoy the drama, though not its consequences.
See a counsellor for yourself, and consider ( discuss i with your own counsellor ) either some joint sessions with your good bf, or some separate couples counselling sessions to protect and develop the relationship
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