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Posted by: nana | 2010/03/25

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i just got married and i faced a problem of not been able to make love with my husband, i was scared and now i want to know if its ok for me to go the gyno for him to open up my vegin since my husband penis is big.

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Dear Nana,

What you describe is not an uncommon occurrence. There are many couples, who due to severe anxiety and feeling unsure, because of lack of experience and/or cultural and religious conservative upbringing, struggle to consumate their marriage.

I would suggest you firat consider seeing a sex therapist who can assist you get over the initial anxieties of initiating sex. Most women can accommodate most penis sizes. You need to know that your vagina is a potential space, that accommodates to the size of the penis as it penetrates. (remember a vagina can stretch to accommodate a baby's head in childbirth)

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Posted by: Nanan | 2010/03/29

Thank you dog i will try your advise, reason why i said his penis is big we tried 1st to inter into my vegina but it couldnt go through then after i started to penic, really i shake when he has to put it on me and i cant even control myself when i shake. THANK you for the advise i will try.

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Posted by: fly | 2010/03/26

Nana if really u are a virgin how come u think your man''s penis is big?I dont think it is bcoz u don''t have exp.Just open your legs and dont think about the pain but how u want to enjoy sex.We all started somewhere so stop being stupid and immature.

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Posted by: Nice Guy | 2010/03/26

Try Lubrication, then you will be fine

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Posted by: Nana | 2010/03/26

I''m turning 28 this year in May and i never had any sexual intercose before thank you for the advise i will consider it doing just that many people are talking about the pain that you will have it on which i had face that 1st whn my husband tried to open my vegin with his finger after that i just couldnt bear it anymore that''s why he then suggested that we should see a gyno which might help.

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Posted by: Tom | 2010/03/25

Nana how old are you? I assume you never had sex prior to your marriage

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Posted by: Sexologist | 2010/03/25

Dear Nana,

What you describe is not an uncommon occurrence. There are many couples, who due to severe anxiety and feeling unsure, because of lack of experience and/or cultural and religious conservative upbringing, struggle to consumate their marriage.

I would suggest you firat consider seeing a sex therapist who can assist you get over the initial anxieties of initiating sex. Most women can accommodate most penis sizes. You need to know that your vagina is a potential space, that accommodates to the size of the penis as it penetrates. (remember a vagina can stretch to accommodate a baby's head in childbirth)

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