Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: captain cum quick | 2013-10-10 premature ejaculation I am 21 years old and having trouble with premature ejaculation not quite sure what to do, for example yesterday I masturbated and ejaculated a few hours before intercourse and still only lasted about 10 seconds! same the day before! Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 2 Our users say: Posted by: ProudlyGay | 2013-10-17 Speak to your doctor as well. There are products(usually cream/lubricant such as BoyButter from the USA) that you can use to make your penis a bit less sensitive and last longer. It does not completely take away the sensation... it just numb's it a bit. It usually contains a bit of local anaestethic. Reply to ProudlyGay Posted by: Anonymous | 2013-10-14 hi there- Masturbating before hand can help, but you cant do it too long before you have sex. Probably an hour before, at most - You're 21 so you should be able to get an erection almost immediately anyways :) . Also, when you masturbate, try to stop JUST before you cum.....stop, calm down, slow your breathing and start again - preferreably dry handed. Go for increasing the number of times you can achieve stopping and starting again. Do this for a couple of times. Then, try using a lubricant (Lotion, KY lelly etc) . and go for the same goals - stop/start for 1minute, then 2 minutes, then 5 minute etc ...... Reply to Anonymous Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions treatment side effects Sexual Attraction for Sister-in-law Exema and pimples i have missed my period for 7months and tests shows negative i was three times at the sonars but it shows nothing is there a problem with me BATTLING WITH WEIGHT LOSS Dry eye after Lasik My husband is a 42 year old diabetic and wants to use 'chloramex opthalmic ointment' Help! My oog val uit oogkas Help! My husband has swollen eyelids I have anxiety attacks and can feel my myself running out of breath Wet at the gynae Husbands strange likes Help! I caught my fiance watching porn and masturbating Censorship Partner cheated.... angry at how I reacted advertisement From our sponsors Cipla today announced the launch of its innovative inhaler called Synchrobreathe.