Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: captain cum quick | 2013/10/10 premature ejaculation I am 21 years old and having trouble with premature ejaculation not quite sure what to do, for example yesterday I masturbated and ejaculated a few hours before intercourse and still only lasted about 10 seconds! same the day before! Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 2 Our users say: Posted by: ProudlyGay | 2013/10/17 Speak to your doctor as well. There are products(usually cream/lubricant such as BoyButter from the USA) that you can use to make your penis a bit less sensitive and last longer. It does not completely take away the sensation... it just numb's it a bit. It usually contains a bit of local anaestethic. Reply to ProudlyGay Posted by: Anonymous | 2013/10/14 hi there- Masturbating before hand can help, but you cant do it too long before you have sex. Probably an hour before, at most - You're 21 so you should be able to get an erection almost immediately anyways :) . Also, when you masturbate, try to stop JUST before you cum.....stop, calm down, slow your breathing and start again - preferreably dry handed. Go for increasing the number of times you can achieve stopping and starting again. Do this for a couple of times. Then, try using a lubricant (Lotion, KY lelly etc) . and go for the same goals - stop/start for 1minute, then 2 minutes, then 5 minute etc ...... Reply to Anonymous Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions im 28 weeks pregnant yesterday the docter told me im 24 week. Dark Skin and Itching around anus Skin flaps Is 10 seconds unprotected anal dangerous for the insertive partner? I CANT STOP WORRYI MYSELF SICK PLEASE HELP Hoofpyn in nag woman wearing blue,black and white beads? Altitude sickness prevention school transport had left me and my friends we asked some old man to take us home we passed some river a big snake and a mermaid where fighting and the snake wanted ?o take me gluten and maize free foods doctor pediasure is appropriate for atopic dermatitis child patient? Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? Husband in denial Parental responsibilities My fiance and her 13 year old son Am I wrong advertisement From our sponsors WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal voucher! Constipation in women SA's old diesel vehicles continue to fuel allergies Complete our allergy survey and stand a chance to win R 1000!