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Posted by: ashraf | 2009/09/01

premature ejaculation

I get ejaculation very early (1 or maximum 2 minutes) when I do sex with my wife in missionary position (this position she likes most). But, other positions I can manage for 3-4 minutes. Even when I ask her to masturbate me , it takes long time (4-5 minutes) for me to ejaculate. My main problem is mainly with this missionary position. Can you help me please?

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Posted by: ahqer | 2009/09/24

When I talk to a girl or just thinks about any, I ejaculate.
I am very worried as my marriage hasn' t taken place &  I ejaculate very quickly.

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Posted by: ahqer | 2009/09/24

When I talk to a girl or just thinks about any, I ejaculate.
I am very worried as my marriage hasn' t taken place &  I ejaculate very quickly.

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Posted by: expert - sasha | 2009/09/02

The missionary position is often the position that enhances the ejaculation. It has to do with the muscle group called the PC muscles that are being contracted and they enhances the ejaculatory process –  especially in the missionary position. What could help is for you to do “ kegel- exercises”  –  you can google “ kegel exercises for men” . These exercises are specifically aimed at helping you to gain more voluntary control over those muscles –  that will enable you to have a bit more control over your own ejaculation.

You are also welcome to contact our helpline –  0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.

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Posted by: expert - sasha | 2009/09/02

The missionary position is often the position that enhances the ejaculation. It has to do with the muscle group called the PC muscles that are being contracted and they enhances the ejaculatory process –  especially in the missionary position. What could help is for you to do “ kegel- exercises”  –  you can google “ kegel exercises for men” . These exercises are specifically aimed at helping you to gain more voluntary control over those muscles –  that will enable you to have a bit more control over your own ejaculation.

You are also welcome to contact our helpline –  0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.

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Posted by: Anon | 2009/09/01

My husband also have the same problem. When he is on top he ejaculates early (also 1 to 2 minutes) but when I am on top he takes long(8-10 minutes). What we do is that I come on top so that i should climax first and when I am done we do the missionary position for him to ejaculate quickly. That is how it works for us and if i am not in the mood I just let him to come on top so that he could finish quickly.

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Posted by: Ja | 2009/09/01

Go twice.

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