Our expert says:
OK, you made a big mistake in choosing a rat as a boyfriend - your duty in life isn't to never make a mistake ( everyone does that ) but to learn from mistakes and not repeat them.
His behaviour is of course disgraceful ( you can pity the new lamb to the slaughter, the new woman he apparently plans to exploit ). You are well rid of him.
However make CERTAIN that you discuss this with the Maintenance COurt and get a proper COurt Order forcing him to pay full maintenance for any birth expenses not covered by your medical aid, and for the continuing costs of raising and supporting the child until it reaches adult age. Such men must never be allowed to scatter their sperm without carrying the costs of doing so.
DO see a counsellor to help support you, and to help you plan to speak with family and friends who I am sure will be glad to provide you with extra support.
Don't let him off the hook by taking all responsibility and blame onto yourself
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