Our expert says:
Have you thought through why you so "desperately" want to have a baby ? Even to the point of thinking about this in connection with a guy you've only been going out with for 6 weeks, even if you knew him as a friend for longer ? It sounds definite that he is far from ready, not only for children, but for a deep or lasting relationship, as he is apparently still very involved with his previous relationship which is obviously still not emotionally, legally or procedurally over.
He should get good legal advice, and may need to take that matter to court, as his ex is probably not entitled to refuse him access to his children, whether or not he pays maintenance for them, which is also a matter probably best settled by the court.
As its only 6 werks old as a formal relationship ( apparently ) is there any problem with you letting that relationship slide back into a more ordinary friendship, and considering the friendship with the other guy ? With any guy, be aware that desperation is usually a real turn-off
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