Our expert says:
With most tumours of the pancreas, she is lucky to be alive 4 years later. Maybe she has been handling very nadly this encopunter with serious illness. Is she still seeing any doctor in conection with her earlier illness ? It's important to clarify what the diagnosis was and whether she is now healthy from that point of view, or whether there could be some continuing medical problems related to that, which themselves could also cause psychological problems. She probably needs a fresh re-assessment of her state of health, physical and mental. Can't you and your dad calmly sit with her, saying that you will not pay attention to her ranting, but insist that she recognize how horribly she is behaving towards everyone else, and that she needs assessment and help. What would happen to her if the pair of you, very reasonably, chose to move out and leave her on her own ? Does she recognize that you have that option ?
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