Posted by: Kathy | 2010-01-29

poop problem

Good day to you from the other side of the world,

My 2 year and eleven month old daughter, who is fully potty trained, refuses to poop, she will hold it in for days on end, it will even go up to ten or fourteen days, where she holds it in. we begin to panic at this stage and proceed to give her an enema, which forces her to go.Whilst on the toilet, she will scream from pain, saying that she feels pain in her vaginal area. we have totally fixed up her diet, in case it was not adequate, she has been eating very well, including prunes, kiwi whole grain cereals, water, fresh juices etc, these foods make my tummy run, but yet my daughter will still not go, we also give her 10 mls per day of Dufalack, which was recommended by our paed, to soften the poop, My worry is that this has been going on for months now, and yes I believe it was caused by one poop that was passes, which perhaps hurt her.
what must I do? do I just carry on feeding her these correct foods and just leave it until she cant possibly hold it in anymore, and perhaps after about 14 days she may pass a stool? im sure this is very dangerous. I am also very concerned about the vaginal pain she feels when she gets the urge to go, Do you think she may have a stool which is stuck, and that when we give her the enema the more recent stools come out and that old one remains there......Im sorry, I do not know what to do, and here where we live, I do not feel as though I am at I professional person. I just need correct advise, bearing in mild that her diet is excellent and full of the correct foods at the moment, as I researched this. I am begining to think that maybe there is a possibility that something else is wrong

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I recommend that you get a second opinion from a paediatrician. It is possible that she is traumatised by previous painful stools. This can be the reason that she is unwilling to pass stools. Due to this, it is possible that she has fecal impaction and a plain abdominal x-ray will show this. Other possibilities also exists, where there is poor nerve stimulation of the colon and ceacum. There can also be small tares of the anus, which can be very painful and that refers as vaginal pain.

Another possibility can be the presence of worms that is also causing the inability to pass stools. Therefore, in short, I suggest and abdominal x-ray and consultation with a paediatrician or gastroenterologist, who has experience with paediatric patients.

Good Luck

Dr Anrich Burger

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