Our expert says:
Maybe you can just explain pleasantly to the people that while you are fond of your son's friend and that they seem very nice people, you are strongly opposed to children being exposed to second-hand smoke, and maybe even imply that your son is especially sensitive to smoke.
Do you know what they do on playdates ? In the good weather, the kids could play outdoors or on the stoep, and be less exposed to smoke, and you could also invite his little friend to rather visit you. While it's the grandmother's house, she has the full right to smoke there if she wishes.
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