Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: Warren | 2013/01/15 PLZ Help Need - Urgently I''m married for 10 years now but separated a year now. Before separation my wife helped me pay the 2 major loans I made while she was maternity leave for 10 months. Then she decided to end the marriage once again. Who knows since when she has been cheating on me again. Finally, I just gave up although we have a daughter now, almost 2yrs old. Financially I''m struggling my butt of and I cant even support my child fully like I want too. I would like to know if there''s anything I can do for her to still pay half of the loans? I''m not sure how long the divorce is going to take coz I might just pay the loans finish and we still not divorced. I''m just so drained from struggling with finance. She also moved out and I''m paying the full bond. She''s not giving a cent towards the debt she left me in. Please Help! I would like to know what I can do in this regard. We are married in COP. I need sumthing done now and not wait till the divorce is final. Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 1 Our users say: Posted by: FIO | 2013/01/24 If married in COP, she is liable for half your debt, simple as that, unless she can prove the debt was incurred without her knowledge, and due to extreme negligence on your side, such as gambling, alcohol abuse etc.Bottom line is that in COP all assets and liabiliies are equal responsibilities. Reply to FIO Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions Decreasing CD4 count because of acohol Possible STI infection Weight loss after cancer Seer hande Maagpyn Decreasing CD4 count because of acohol Abusive marriage Dream of late mother Terrible Year for my pets pt2 Recurring anxiety/OCD Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? My son and I If a girl swallows sperm, can she get pregnant? He called me filth Spiked drink advertisement From our sponsors Discover treatments that can help reduce acne What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks? Dementia and Incontinence: what you need to know WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal online store voucher!