Our expert says:
So he has lied to you, knowingly for 3 years ? He sounds dishonest and untrustworthy. Do you really find a guy who can behave like this, not caring at all about you, the other women, or any of the kids, to have anything to love ? Isnt it perhaps true that what you love is the guy you imagined he was, rather than the guy he actually is ? Don't stick to a bad man for fear of your friends or family blaming you. If they love you, they will understand that you made a bad choice for good reasons. A counsellor could help you to work through this and make the best choice for yourself and the children. If you decide to move on and leave him, make sure you involve the Maintenance court so he has to pay for the upkeep of his child with you, and the other woman should do the same./ Maybe if he discovers it will cost him money every month to play around and father children around the place, he may think more carefully about what he has been doing
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