Our expert says:
I'm listening. But please urgently get proper direct expert help, as you reall need and deserve it. You are so right that you must not end it all.
The sitation you describe sounds complex and murky, and the motivations of most of those involved need to be questioned and examined.
Its not clear who have been making these accusations. Children may do so, but they are also often abused by those motivated to persuade them to make accusations against others.
It sounds as though child welfare is not being consistent or fair in ignoring the original report from the clinic, and in stopping you from having access to the child while allowing the other grandfather, also accused, of having apparently free contact. That isn't justifiable.
You need good legal advice, obviously, and maybe try to see if there's a free law clinic at your nearest law school.
Oh, and I can't respond by e-mail, that isn't how this service works.
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