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Posted by: Nina | 2012/08/09

please help

i am a lady aged 29. i only have orgasm through mastubartion, i have never had it during sex. please help

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You mention that you can reach an orgasm through masturbation which is great. It is important to be able to communicate to your partner what feels good, to ensure that enough time is spent on foreplay and to focus on the more sensitive areas, vulva and clitoris. It is often not possible to reach orgasm just by penetration and stimulation to these more sensitive areas in essential. Often it helps to try different positions, you may try the 'woman on top position'. This allows you to be more in control and to angle your pelvis to ensure maximum stimulation. You can also control the speed at which the stimulation happens. Try not to focus too much on the goal but relax and focus on the sensations/pleasure.

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Posted by: sexologist | 2012/08/09

You mention that you can reach an orgasm through masturbation which is great. It is important to be able to communicate to your partner what feels good, to ensure that enough time is spent on foreplay and to focus on the more sensitive areas, vulva and clitoris. It is often not possible to reach orgasm just by penetration and stimulation to these more sensitive areas in essential. Often it helps to try different positions, you may try the 'woman on top position'. This allows you to be more in control and to angle your pelvis to ensure maximum stimulation. You can also control the speed at which the stimulation happens. Try not to focus too much on the goal but relax and focus on the sensations/pleasure.

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