Our expert says:
The woman he is divorcing sounds irresponsible and unstable and in ned of counselling. She may indeed not be a fit person to fully and safely care for the children, but of course it's hard for anyone to tell without a direct personal assessment.
This is a DIVORCE, and she is in denial if she expects that her husban will want to return to her, or that he is not allowed to have friends, male or female, who may sympathise.
I don't think she can stop the divorce by changing her story - and if she claims you and he were an item earlier, that hardly makes a convincin argument for them to stay together ! But he needs proper legal advice on such points.
He would be wise to have some of her unpleasantness witnessed, and to find a way to record her ugly calls or messages.
Maybe he tells you, maybe correctly, that he doesn't intend to go back, but it doesn't sound as though he has convinced her of that. so far.
If he has any reason to fear for the safety of the kids, he should involve child welfare and have the situation and her stability, assessed
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