Our expert says:
This seems rather soon after breaking up from a long-term relationship for someone to be getting married ; possibly there's a rebopund element here, or perhaps this relationship had behun even before the bearkup ?
If you hav broken up with him, I can understand receiing the occasional drunken call from him, but how does he get opportunities to pick fights and arguments with you ?
I agree that his picking fights suggests that he may be far from over with this relationship, but it's a lousy tactic on his part.
You could calmly tell him that these squabbles are unpleasant and potentially upsetting for the child as well as yoursxelf, and that you don't want any more of them. That he can communicate with you by e-mail or SMS as regards his spending time with the child, but that you don't want to spend any further time with him where there are opportunities for these unnecessary and unhelpful arguments,
What do other readers think ?
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