Our expert says:
Who was doing the problem drinking ? You or your husband ? Its very understandable that you feel guilty and sad - you did something really ugly to your husband and child. And, as so often happens, you now find your lover is a lot less than you thought he was. You don't mention whether you have divorced your husband.
But of course your lover will be suspicious of you - you have already proved to him that you are prepared to cheat on your husband. And why would he care properly for your son ?
Why not rather go the route of marriage counselling with your husband,. to try to sort things out ? You gave up on him and the marriage before trying properly to fix things.
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