Our expert says:
Isnt it sad how many families waste time and effort being cruel to each other ? You're the focus, not the cause ; the victim and not the victimizer ; the poisoned, not the poison. It is they who are being greedy and selfish, not you.
If your husband is indeed the father of the child, he is responsible for paying a reasonably amount of maintenance for the child's expenses. If the pair of you share costs, maybe in a sense you contribute to that, but its not your responsibility to pay for the child someone else insists on caring for.
I agree with Romany that such matyters are better decided by a court taking provable facts into account rather than gossip, and trying to make a fair decision for the best benefit of the child. Don't give these unpleasant people the power to upset you so.
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