Our expert says:
Sounds like your current bf is blinkered and unsympathetic and rather ignorant of the realities of the world, if he blames you for being raped by an ex. Of course if you chose to again exposre yourself to such risks from that slug, then he would indeed have something reasonable to complain about, but I presume you won't allow that to happen again.
If you plan to stay with this current bf ( for reasons I don't understand ) wouldn't it be wise for you both to see a couples counsellor together, as it sounds as though there are so many issues between you needing to be worked on ?
Maybe get some free photo-editing software so you can remove your ex from any photos you want tom keep as family pictures ( and keep them on your computer rather than phone ).
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