Our expert says:
I think I'll leave this one to other readers to respond to. There are surely MANY ways in which to "not be on yopur own" without going out with any guy who whistles ? Charritable work and NGO's, volunteering at the local hospital, hobbies, political and other social projects, whatever and you tend to meet much nicer people and may find a relationship as an agreeable side-effect, better than when its the main purpose of the pursuit.
And if you really find your own company so unpleasant, and feel bad about yourself unless you're in even an unsatisfactory relationship, then maybe seeing a counsellor would indeed help, to improve self-esteem and confidence
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